So I lied . . .

Ok  so I didn’t lie exactly. . . I just got tired.  Let’s backtrack to my last post; you know the one where I declared that I was going to be in wigs for the duration of winter? Yea well, quite frankly, I got tired of it.  This past weekend, I decided to blow out my hair and do two strand twists. I got tired of the wig and I just didn’t want to be bothered with it any longer. Not to say that I won’t try rocking a wig in the near future but for the time being I’ll stick to twists, buns, etc. But then again, I might come upon a cute wig or hair piece this wknd and try wigging it again. Whatever the case may be, I will keep my hair protected, moisturized and well cared for, this winter. (lifts of right hand) this is my solemn vow. :-)

I’ll def keep you guys updated.

Vene

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Shedding!

Hey guys!!

I’m a stickler for protective styles. They are low maintenance, they are low maintenance, and they are low maintenance! lol.  Besides all the other benefits, this is my favorite. why? because with my busy life, I need a style that doesn’t require a lot of time and effort.

Recently I’ve been rocking  two strand twists with extensions. ( I did them myself — these salons are waaaay to expensive for my taste, $100– or more)  Despite my love of  PS (protect styles,) my hair has been shedding like crazy. Everytime I take my hair down,  it’s like shed central! I moisturize regularly…. ok, I admit it! I haven’t been moisturizing as much as I used to but I didn’t completely fall off the band wagon. I moisturized um. . . . from time to time.

To make matters worse, I’ realized that I haven’t been doing protein treaments.  THIS IS A HUGE PROBLEM as  proten treatments help to make the hair strong. Hence, my breakage. Soooooooooo I’ve decided to go on a hair challenge for the next two months.   Yes, it will be a protective challege, However, it’s going to have a twist to it.

I’m going to stick with protective styles that gives me the opportunity do protein and deep conditioning treatments  on a weekly, bi-weekly basis. I love my two strand twists extensions but although I can wash as often as I’d like, I can’t do a protein treatment.  I’m not sure if any of you have had any success doing it with extensions in, but i’m kinda Leary because I want to be 100% sure everything is washed out.

soooooo I’ve decided to rock a half-wig for the rest of the winter as this will enable me to take my hair down ,deep condition and do protein treatments.  So here’s my course of action:

  • Cleanse my hair once a week and deep condition.  (I typically stick to co-washes but as i will be using thick products on my hair during the week, I’ve decided to wash my scalp to prevent build-up)
  • Keep my hair in braids (under the hair piece)
  • moisturize my hair everynight. I have a mixture of glycerine, water, EVOO, and infusion 23 that I use.  As my hair tends to dry out alot, I take a extra step by adding Cantu Shea butter or whipped shea butter (I make it myself) .
  • Baggy my hair EVERY night( or at least 95% of the time)! I swear by this method because It really  keeps my hair nice and moist. I will do this on a nightly basis. I typically use a plastic cap and put a satin hair bonnet over it.
  • Proctect my natural hair. I don’t want the wig to snagg my natural hair so I will wear a stocking cap over my head to prevent any kind of breakage.

I’ll keep you guys posted on my progress!!

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7 Myths about natural hair

example of 4b hair

example of 4b hair

Hey Natural-istas!

I found this interesting article that dispels some myths about natural hair care. check it out.

The Truth About Natural Curly, Coily, Kinky hair

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Natural hair 101

Good Morning!

I’ve been natural for a while now and over the last two years  I have learned a lot about my hair. I’ve learned how to wash , comb, style and moisturize it. Believe it or not, natural hair maintenance is COMPLETELY different from permed/relaxed hair maintenance. Especially for folks like me who have 4b hair; a courser, coilier hair type.  I’ve heard repeatedly that 4b hair is “difficult” or “hard to manage” and I used to believe it back when I had no idea of how to take care of my hair. However, after I took some time to learn how to maintain my hair, I’ve come to realize that my hair isn’t difficult.  As a matter of fact, natural hair is quite manageable once you learn How to Work with Your Hair Type. Here is some useful information I’ve gleaned over the years:

Combing natural hair First off,  Unlike relaxed/straight hair, natural hair is NOT to be combed from roots to tip. It should be combed from the ends  and gradually move down to the roots; This piece of advice is very important because if hair is combed incorrectly, serious breakage will occur. To make matters worst, you’ll inflict unnecessary pain on yourself.  Also, NEVER comb your hair when it’s dry! combing dry hair can lead to breakage. It’s vital that you only comb your hair when it’s wet and  has conditioner in it. If you need to detangle and you’re not in the process of washing your hair, try using a 50/50 mixture of glycerin and water in a spray bottle to help soften up your hair so the comb ( always use a big tooth comb) can easily slide through your hair.

Moisture is key! since natural hair, 4b especially, tends to break quite easily, moisturizing your hair is vital to hair growth. As the ends of your hair is the oldest part, it needs to be babied in order for it to retain its length.  Not every product works for every hair type. However, in my experience, creamy, thick products works best in my hair. Raw Shea butter is a staple in product drawer.

Stay Away from direct heat! I try to stay away from heat as much as possible because too much heat can damage your hair. i.e., If you straighten your hair with a flat iron/ blow dry regularly, you may incur some heat damage that will  permanently straighten your hair. This means that when you wash or no-poo, your natural curls will not revert back to its natural  state and you’ll have to cut off the damage ends.  A good alternative is air-drying. When I wash my hair, I usually plait it in a few braids and leave it to dry. On the few occasions that I do blow dry or straighten my hair, I use a heat protectant and use a low heat setting on my flat iron and/or blow-dryer.

Protective Styling is very important in the retention of your hair length. I try not to leave my hair in an Afro for more than a couple of days because loose hair is more prone to the harsh elements (cold winter winds, snow, hot sun etc).  Also, if your hair is in a loose state, it can easily rub against sofas ,the collars of clothing  and cause hair breakage. Two strand twists, weaves, braids, are considered protective styling.  For more information about protective styling visit http://veneoasis.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/natural-hair-slideshow.pptx for examples.

two strand twist with extension

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Natural Terminology ( for newbies)

TWA

TWA

Hey!

So you’re newly natural and you’re ready to start browsing natural hair websites and blogs. Before you do, you’ll need to know some of the lingo/natural terminology that are commonly used on these websites and blogs. I’ve listed below some of the most used terms:

BC (Big Chop): The process of cutting off the relaxed/permed ends of the hair to reveal your natural texture. This can be done a few weeks after a new perm. i.e., when you start to have new growth.

TWA( Teenie Weenie Fro):  This term refers to the hairstyle that is worn by most women who recently BC.  This hairstyle is essentially what it indicates; a small Afro.

Co-Wash:  Washing  hair using only a moisturizing conditioner.  This is done because shampoo tends to strip hair of its natural oils.

Pre-poo:  Prepping hair with conditioner, oils or treatments prior to washing hair, as a way to reduce the drying affects of most shampoos.

Sealing:  After moisturizing hair, typically oils such such as coconut, olive oil, etc are used to “lock in ” the moisture into the hair.

Protective Styling:  Contrary to popular belief, natural hair is very fragile and needs to be handled with the utmost care.  Styling that protects hair ends  from breaking off are a must. (Breaking occurs when hair is handled too often, it can break when rubbed against clothing, rough texture material etc.)  Two strand twist, braids, etc are a few choice protective options.

Hair Length Terms

EL:  Ear length

NL: Neck length

SL: Shoulder length

APL: Arm Pit length

BSL: Bra Strap length

BSB: Below Shoulder Blade

MBL: Mid Back Length

Now that you know the lingo,  go out and explore to your heart’s content! If you need a nudge in the right direction, check out my links( on the right) and you’ll find a barrage of useful information.

Until next time,

Vene

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